When ask what's happiness, Ellen Degeneres said :
Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city ...lol..
It makes sense right? Family can really get in your way! E.g. my two brothers are always at each others throat during family gatherings. And they are not kids anymore. My mum is always helping people, at the expense of her own time & money. No body ever return all the money she ever lent to them. That like pisses all of us off, especially my dad. My brother is always calling me to run errands. In fact the whole family does that to me, as I've a compulsive nature. They know I'll get anything done asap. If the washing machine spoils, it's me, TV , micro wave whatever, it's all on me.
